Life in Midlife: work, play & parenting

Shortcuts and articles for moms of all stages pushing to be a better person, parent, and partner.


Chaney Chaney

Dressing For Family Photos

DODGE THE PINTEREST BULLET. No matter how well-coiffed and JCrew-fashioned your family looks, you will remember the pressure and stress leading up to that moment more than anything else about the picture. And this goes for every single aspect of your lifeโ€ฆPerfection is relative.

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Chaney Chaney

The Power Of Incremental Happiness

REDUCE YOUR STRESS WITH SMALL HITS OF JOY. It was mildly horrifying to watch my friend grab one of her coveted tea towels and mop up spilled salsa. But it triggered a decade-long quest to add small pleasures to my days that help combat the mayhemโ€ฆ

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Chaney Chaney

Family Photography in the Berkeley Hills

AUTHENTIC FAMILY LIFE. Show us the stress, the silly, and the love. Show us ALL of your layers and levels so we can normalize what we've learned to hide. Family life is hard and wonderful.

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Chaney Chaney

How To Take Creative Photos For Halloween

5 TRICKS TO PHOTOGRAPH YOUR COSTUME CALD KIDS. Parents are kings and queens of stressing out when photographing our kids on a regular day. Now add in candy and costumes? Forget it. The Halloween photo we envision isn't going to happen gracefully, so we need to accept what unfolds naturally or try something different.

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Forging Friendships After Motherhood

WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU CANโ€™T FIND YOUR TRIBE. We receive daily reminders weโ€™re missing out on something. Headlines equating happiness with friendships clog our social feeds, shouting about the importance of โ€œsquadsโ€ or โ€œclansโ€ or โ€œsoul sisters.โ€ But when youโ€™re a busy mom, finding your tribe is easier said than done.

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